Life is all about moments. There’s a saying that goes something like, “Life isn’t about the number of breaths we take, but about the moments that take our breath away.” When a person is in their 70s, 80s, or 90s and is having difficulty with their own basic care, it can feel like those moments that would take their breath away are well behind them.
That may or may not be true.
A person might not be considering a rock climbing adventure when they’re in their late 60s, 70s, or 80s, but that doesn’t mean they can’t find new adventures that give them thrills. One of the most important things for human beings is social interaction.
We are social creatures and, as a result, the moments that tend to take our breath away usually involve other people. This senior who has finally decided to choose assisted living for their future might be living alone. They may be widowed. They may have adult children living across the country and few of their friends are in the area or still alive. They may feel completely isolated and alone.
When they finally move into this new assisted living community (new to them), they will be introduced to new people. They will be exposed to potentially brand new experiences. They will have opportunities they thought were well behind them to experience life in new ways.
How can they make every moment count?
It might take some people time to adjust. Some seniors will spend the majority of their waking hours inside their room with the door closed. That is certainly their right, but eventually they should be encouraged to get out and explore. Some seniors who are extremely shy might eventually keep their door open during the day and allow other residents to say hello, stop by to visit, and more.
When they finally get out to explore the entertainment, activities, and other things that go on every day at this assisted living community, they will start to realize there’s a lot to enjoy and plenty of life still to live. They might not be traveling anymore, but that doesn’t mean they have to stop living life on their own terms.
To make every moment count at assisted living, it’s all about putting oneself ‘out there.’ Getting out of the room, walking around, and exploring what this community offers is the best first step to make every moment count in this new life.
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