Moving is one of the top five stressors in life. Losing a close family member is arguably at the top of the list when it comes to the major stresses in life, but making a move is second in many surveys. When an elderly person is planning a move to assisted living, their family and friends might be excited for them, seeing this is a wonderful opportunity, and they can lose sight of just how stressful this is for that individual.
How to help the senior feel comfortable.
The longer a person has lived in the same place, whether it’s an apartment, house, townhome, condominium, or anything else, the more entrenched they become. We, as a species, have a tendency to gather items over the years. One only needs to go in their attic, basement, or storage unit to see just how much ‘stuff’ they accumulate over the course of their life.
When a person has lived in the same place for decades, there will be a lifetime of memories, tokens, mementos, furniture, dishes, paper towels, toilet paper, and so much more. It builds up and the more stuff people accumulate, the more memories they have in the house itself, the more difficult it can be to move.
One of the best ways to help an elderly person settle their nerves is to focus on small things. Instead of the big move that is coming up, think about an activity that is common at this new facility and of which the senior will be interested. It could be a particular art form or craft activity. Maybe it’s a type of entertainment. Whatever it is, focus on the small things, especially something the senior is not doing at the moment because of their physical limitations and where they live.
Also, depending on how long it’s going to be before this move, starting slow and doing a little bit of packing up, going through items, and giving personal mementos to close family and friends a little at a time can help to settle some of those nerves.
Help the senior become acclimated to their new living space.
Before they move in, find out the dimensions of their new living space. If it’s similar to a secondary bedroom in their house, arrange that room in a way they will do it in their new assisted living room. Put the furniture in place, add pictures, and help them see this might be what their new living environment will feel like.
This can help them feel more relaxed and, ultimately, become a little more excited and comfortable with this pending move.
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